20 Things I've Learned in 20 Years

This year I was blessed to turn 20 years old. I can't believe it! Feels just like yesterday when I was playing with my barbies while watching Teletubbies. Now I'm in my third year of college and I can't hardly believe it. Through my 2 decades here on earth I've learned quite a few things about life that has helped me grow as a person. Today I am going to share these lessons with you!

1. The only person you can be is you. There is no point in trying to be someone else. Variety exists for a reason. If we were all the same life would be incredibly boring!

2. Doubting yourself will only sell yourself short. Enter each and every situation with optimism and confidence. 

3. Don't be afraid to be bold. If you want something ask for it.

4. With confrontation it's best to be assertive and not aggressive.

5. The only person that can turn your dreams into a reality is you.

6. Never demand less than the best.

7. Always give your all in everything that you do.

8. How you move on from a difficult situation is in your hands.

9. Always stand up for yourself and others.

10.  It's important to be open about you feelings. Holding things inside only makes things worse.

11. Try your best to be happy every single day.

12. Self care is important. It's important to be selfish every once in a while. It's ok to say no and take some time for yourself to rest and recharge.

13. Don't ever change yourself to make someone like you.

14. If you miss someone, call them.

15. The only person that can truly help you is yourself.

16. Don't base your self worth off of someone's opinion of you.

17. Always dream big.

18. Respect people from all walks of life.

19. Always give back when you can.

20. Travel is key to an open-mind and an open heart.